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What age did you leave your child at home?

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Orangebadger · 09/01/2024 12:11

I am not quite in the teen stage yet, but heading there with my 11 yr old. In September she will be starting secondary school and she will be 12 in November. Currently they (DS is 6) go to a child minder for wrap around care twice a week and in the holidays the odd day with the childminder or a club/ wrap around care.

Now when she is in secondary obviously no more child care. What age did you leave your teen at home while you went to work for the day in the holidays?

Despite my DD being very sensible and mature I just think 12 is too young for this. I am not sure what I will do with her when I am working in the school holidays!

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liveforsummer · 15/01/2024 19:07

By 12 I was leaving dd for the day if necessary. I'm a single parent though so sometimes no other option. I work term time only though so only ever a day here or there

AvengedQuince · 15/01/2024 20:27

If they get lonely they can invite a friend over or meet up with friends in town or the park surely? That's what DS did from 12.

Copasetic · 15/01/2024 20:32

I was 34.

Orangebadger · 15/01/2024 23:16

MonaChopsis · 15/01/2024 18:54

OP I found DD matured astonishly fast after the transition to high school. She very quickly went from organised playdates to 'hanging out' with her friends in the village, coming and going as she pleased. Much helped by having her own phone so being able to group-chat and organise getting together! I suspect by next summer you DD'll be independent enough to do the same.

Reassuring and scary at the same time! As in how fast they change once they start high school!!!

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