Love life happening too fast

[SENmum88]

My nearly 15 year old, has a girlfriend, it's all happening so fast, should I be concerned they've had oral?? he's sworn to me they are both not ready for sex. They want to wait.

Oral is sex.

Wait for what?

They aren't waiting for fuck all if they've already done oral.

I would be have many, very lengthy discussions about contraception.

According to my DD age 16, most 15/16 year olds do oral before penetrative sex. I was horrified and told her in my day oral was far more intimate so would be done after sex.

Several of her friends have done oral with boys they've been on first dates with to keep the boy interested. We've had a frank talk and I've told her no girl should feel the need to do this!

I'd get him some condoms and talk about keeping safe. He's going to do it regardless so he needs to know he can come to you talk if needed.

That's horrendous DumpedByText. I think it would have put me off sex for life if my early experiences were only oral!