I think dd is stealing money from me

[stclair]

I’ve had suspicions over the past few weeks.To save a long story, yesterday I found myself £15 short of the money I was leaving for cleaner. Dh also said he’s noticed money missing from his wallet. I exclaimed over it all in earshot of dd13 who looked a bit sheepish but tried to
explain away what may have happened to it. Dd10 also cant find her purse with all her savings it in. Dd1 knows I’m suspicious, I’m sure of it, but how do I bring this up with her without total accusation? I’m sure she would just deny it

It doesn’t sound it, but hopefully she hasn’t started the vaping habit and is throwing money away on that.

Loads of youngsters are doing it and it’s becoming a real problem in schools.

Well done .. a good outcome.
The worry is that sometimes they need money as they are being bullied or victim of protection racket ... my nephew had this.