My 19yr old is really struggling and I don’t know how best to help without making things worse. I should explain she has some learning difficulties, some physical limitations and has had serious health problems in the past. She’s lovely and has overcome so much. She is overweight but broad and curvy. She is really struggling with her body image. How do you encourage a healthy approach to food/exercise without the guilt? And self confidence when it’s so hard to find clothing that fits. She wants to dress like other teenagers who all seem to be slim. I feel I’m failing her