Teenage sex

[Springtimeinthegarden]

Hello, I'm new to mumsnet, but after some advice please. Our AS, 14years old has a gf who is 15 years old. We have noticed that they have been getting intimate, kissing and cuddling each other, but this morning I found some condoms in his bedroom.. also roll ups and tobacco. I am guessing that the gf has given him these. Do I tell the girls parents that I think they are having sex?

Why on earth do you think he didn’t obtain on his own

are they doing this “heavy petting” in front of you?

14 is very very young in my opinion. I’m guessing he’s allowed a lot of freedom?

Do I tell the girls parents that I think they are having sex?

I would maybe start with some conversations with your son first...

My 14 Yr old is having sex with his gf and he us a horrible nasty child because of it as he wasn't ready at all to have a relationship. I have spoken to him and have told his gf I do not want him to be a teen dad I found disgusting photos on his phone. I had a talk with him told him it's illegal he ignores me and is now nothing like the son he used to be . Argumentive nasty manipulation games etc emotionally wrecked. Would never have thought he could be like this.