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Doubledoodlemummy · 15/02/2022 16:43

Have any of you got any positive stories of their teen girls turning around their life at secondary?
My daughter is friendless at school- her best friend has moved to a different country and she’s now alone for most of the time.
We’ve talked about just chatting to people and being open to starting conversations, asking people questions and getting them to talk about themselves but it’s harder than it seems when you aren’t a naturally outgoing person.
Up to now there’s been no problems with the other children- but today one of the ‘popular girls’ commented that my daughter would be off to eat her lunch alone in the toilets! (Not the case but still!)
It seems that she’s now got labelled as ‘strange’ or a loner and the other children don’t want to be associated with her - how does she turn this around?
She doesn’t want to leave school as it’s an excellent one academically and she’s doing really well but can’t see how she can survive this unhealthy environment for very long.

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Doubledoodlemummy · 18/02/2022 18:22

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This rings so many bells for me - my daughter is also friendless. She's got people to vaguely hang around with at school but they never contact her outside of school or invite her anywhere (she announced quite casually the other day that they were all going to someone's birthday but she hadn't been included). She's tried asking to meet up, and tried clubs....to be honest I have have given up and just waiting for GCSE groups to come along. Unfortunately this all means we are in the house together a lot and driving each other nuts.
It does help to know she’s not the only going through this. Hope we all get some positive turn in events very soon.
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