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DD love bites after a week

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mumofblu · 04/01/2022 13:36

Exactly this
DD 14 . Stopped previous bf seeing her after finding photos of him in her bed after 1 month , excuse was he didn't have a bed at home and was tired , photos of love bites , talked to her ? Next photos of love bites on his chest and waist so we banned them
New bf now has them above his trouser tops , I told her before she started seeing him no , she did on his neck ? His parents went mad ( I don't know them but have asked for contact details ) as did prev parents ,
She lies , Telling friends we let her get drunk , we don't , now love bites despite saying before and me checking after ,
I've told her she can't see him again , she's begging for another chance , said she doesn't have any znd he wanted her to do it
I think she's being risky. ? What do others think !!

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mumofblu · 04/01/2022 22:50

@Boogaloony just reread , wow well done for where you are now just wow p

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GrazingSheep · 04/01/2022 23:18

She was sexually assaulted at 7
Groomed online at 10
You’re not sure if she is sexually active at 14
Has she had professional therapeutic help?

mumofblu · 05/01/2022 07:52

The assault was reported to police at the time and she is being referred for specialist support , not sure how long wait is , also due to see a counsellor starting this month She had refused any support up until now but now accepting help outside of her family , that's why we waited . She wasn't ready.
The grooming on the phone was just starting and I shut it down quickly before anything happened and told her why it was a risk , she does listen and we have no conflict except the love bites .

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