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Teenagers sharing images - Indecent

36 replies

Christmaswindows · 29/11/2021 17:53

I’ve just found indecent images of a 16 year old on my 13 year olds phone. These were sent in several texts. The 16 year old is asking for pictures of 13 year old. I know who the 16 year old is. What do I do? I’ve spoken to my 13 year old about this subject many, many times.

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MiracleBaby2022 · 29/11/2021 19:12

@rrhuth I agree. I think some of what goes on between children and teenagers is what psychoanalysts would call "sexual exploration" - and it's often very difficult to know where the line is between that and something clearly very inappropriate.

AnyFucker · 29/11/2021 19:12

You have been very careful to not reveal the sex of either of these children. Why is that ?

Christmaswindows · 29/11/2021 19:15

@AnyFucker It shouldn’t matter or make a difference what their sexes are.

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AnyFucker · 29/11/2021 19:16

Indeed. But I am interested in why you have deliberately concealed it.

rrhuth · 29/11/2021 19:17

[quote MiracleBaby2022]@rrhuth I agree. I think some of what goes on between children and teenagers is what psychoanalysts would call "sexual exploration" - and it's often very difficult to know where the line is between that and something clearly very inappropriate.[/quote]
I think it is easier to see the line than people make out, tbh.

KittenCatcher · 29/11/2021 19:17

No it doesnt matter if they are girls or boys. Hope your 13yo understands how serious this is and listens to you.

Christmaswindows · 29/11/2021 19:18

@AnyFucker Whenever I post anywhere in relation to my child or children I rarely use their gender unless it’s relevant. I do not believe it is relevant here.

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AnyFucker · 29/11/2021 19:20

Ok. No further derailing from me.

Mantlemoose · 29/11/2021 19:27

Police. You have a 'legal' adult sending and requesting pictures of a minor. Why would you even hesitate?

MiracleBaby2022 · 29/11/2021 19:28

@rrhuth yes I think you're probably right

OnceuponaRainbow18 · 29/11/2021 19:35

Police, then inform school

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