If your MH impacted in the relationship with your children, please could you offer your advice and wisdom how you recovered your relationship with your children.
For context - oldest feels very strongly I did not love her and feels the only way to manage these strong feelings is to be non-contact.
Youngest more talkative and we are having recovery conversations.
I’m hoping this will not alienate DD1 more than she already feels vis-a-vis a natural sibling rivalry