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Dd and boyfriend and social distancing

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AvenueQ · 21/06/2020 12:28

Dd has been seeing her boyfriend for SD walks since it has been allowed. She's 19. She now wants to move in with his family for a while. If she does, what contact would you consider? Just garden? When and how would you let her move back? This is all so confusing!!!

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AvenueQ · 21/06/2020 12:38

I mean what contact between her and us.

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AvenueQ · 21/06/2020 13:05

Hopeful bump for opinions/advice

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flack · 21/06/2020 13:21

One day at a time, is my short answer.
I guess to try to stay in rules I would formulate a plan that doesn't involve her coming back into the house once all her stuff is out, but in reality there is no way I would shut her out if the relationship goes sour.

IHaveBrilloHair · 21/06/2020 13:25

Entirely up to you, but my Dd18 lives with her BF, I'm in the shielding group but have had her over 4 times since this began.
I'm her Mum, if she needs me, she needs me.
We don't social distance at all.
Her and BF do from other people though so I feel the physical risk is minimal and I'm prepared to take the chance for her.

AvenueQ · 21/06/2020 20:09

Thank you

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