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Any experience of teen Body Dysmorphia?

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DishingOutDone · 20/11/2019 22:32

Bit worried about posting as when you do a search its all AIBU posts about trans issues; there's nothing on teen mental health either, but has anyone got specific experience of their teenager (DD16 in my case) having BDD - thinking she's too ugly to live etc? - she's under CAMHS but they are reluctant to refer to specialist services I presume because of cost. Seeing her psychiatrist again soon I am worried she's been struggling for 2+ years and hiding the way she really feels.

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LaBelleDameSansPatience · 20/11/2019 23:16

No ...but my daughter (13) feels much the same ... no amount of telling her how other people see her makes any impact. ..

DishingOutDone · 21/11/2019 17:35

Hi @LaBelleDameSansPatience thank you for replying. Does it affect your DD's day to day activities? Mine didn't leave the house for nearly a year missed all of year 11, we had to put paper over the mirrors as well.

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Logjam · 22/11/2019 18:58

My friend's ds has it - not diagnosed until his late teens/ early twenties, he also has OCD. CBT helps as does the medication.

Bobkitten · 22/11/2019 19:17

Yes, I went through it twice, once at age 20, once a few years later. I was suicidal on both occasions, went through all the isolation, constant seeking of reassurance, blankets over mirrors, etc. Anti-depressants worked on both occasions, but took time. I had CBT as well the second time, which was brilliant - it worked ‘slowly’ if that makes sense, until I realised one day the anxiety over my ‘flaw’ was pretty much gone. There is light at the end of the tunnel, I promise. Feel free to PM me if you want more details. My parents were (and are) wonderful, and were a huge part of my recovery.

DishingOutDone · 22/11/2019 23:09

Thank you both, and thank you to Bobkitten for sharing and offering to PM; I'm so glad your parents helped.

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