“I haven’t seen my kids in 3 years”

[SP11]

I saw this thread on Dadsnet -

www.thedadsnet.com/forums/topic/three-years-since-seeing-my-children/

He says he had an affair and holds his hands up - but from not seeing his children, he’s getting more and more depressed.

Hi mummy’s, is there any mums that are being dads too? My 4 Adult children haven’t had there spam donor in there life for 17+ years from the youngest. Not even a penny, birthday or Christmas card. Before I go into my life story, I really need some advice from a mummy in the same shoes as me.
Plzzz