Getting teen to make plans with friends

[oliviajane0202]

14yo Dd seems to have awful anxiety when making plans, she seems to sit there contemplating whether to send the first message for ages. What to do?

My son is 13 and us parents message around a lot. Ie any of the boys want to go to cinema this weekend? I guess because we are paying at this age. Would this help? Mine is a boy though. Not sure if teen girls would appreciate tbis!