My 18 year old Son is out of control. He is extremely angry and flips out over the simplest things. He often drinks but smokes weed constantly. He doesn't have a job, got kicked out of college, and hangs around with people often a lot younger than himself, age 14/15 and just get stoned all the time. He is verbally abusive at home which causes distress to my 14 year old son and as a result of this he often struggles at school. My eldest turned 18 at the end of September, since then he has been beaten senseless by apparent strangers and for a seperate incident spent a night in a police cell. I took him to the drs last week and he has beenr referred to a drug and alcohol councellor and an anger management specialist but to be honest, i dont think he will go along to any sessions. I think he has ADHD but am unsure on how to broach the subject with him. I have tried kicking him out before and instantly regretted it. I love him so much but he is absolutely intolerable most of the time. I feel constantly anxious when he is at home and then worry when he is not. My Husband and I are absolutely desperate. I dont know where to turn for help or what to do!