Drugs, drinking, nudes at 15

[dogsbodymum]

I'm so stressed I don't know what to do. My dd who is 15 decided to have friends around one night we weren't there. I discovered a empty bottle of larger in my bedroom, our family photo sticking out of a cabinet in the kitchen and various other things. To cut a long story short she finally admitted she had friends around when she knew she shouldn't. As punishment I took all her divices off her and have been going through her phone. I have now discovered she has been smoking cannabis her friends have been making bongs etc. It's horrible to watch there was even a video of her doing it in her school uniform.

Then even more disturbing I find a picture and a video of her topless and I believe she sent this to some boy ! Then I notice an app called kubo which appears to be a teenage version of tinder , talking to boys all over the place but we've had the conversation about you don't know who you're talking to etc. She's learnt this at school numerous times. It's so scary and disappointing. I know I have to deal with this but I don't know how. Any advice?

I really wouldn’t punish her and I’m not sure how you are going to bring up the subjects without breaching her trust.

The first thing I’d do though is Talk to Frank

Hopefully someone will be along soon with sone knowledge.

It's just got worse, she had more like 20/30 people around here, wrecking our house. Drugs and alcohol a fight broke out and the police were called. I've just made her apologise to the neighbours. I'm fuming

Is she home alone a lot OP? Just asking as my DS is 14 and I can’t see him having the opportunity.

No never, we were on our honeymoon, she was staying with a friend told her friends mum they were going to a party she didn't realise it was at our house and she must of stolen a key!

I’ve just seen your other thread about your DSD. Sounds like you’ve got your hands full at the moment. Congratulations on your marriage and hopefully somebody will be along soon.