Anyone allowed boyfriends/girlfriends to stay over and regretted it?

[Teenageromance]

Just that really - think dd is old enough now to make her own decisions re this but it still makes me a bit uncomfortable.

Ds's gf had no respect for our home /privacy. Once she locked his door and took the keys home!!.
She made herself a coffee once - bypassing dh on the way to the kettle - then handed him the cup to wash!!
If the sleeping together bit is hard, you need to suck it up.
(maybe wrong words!! )

Dd1’s bf is coming to stay next week. Dh has steadfastly ignored the sleeping arrangements so I asked dd yesterday. She’s sharing with her sister. I actually don’t mind - but as I said to dd, I don’t want her put in the position where she feels she is forced into something she isn’t comfortable with. I asked her whether they shared when she visited his family and she said no. They might technically be adults but they seem to be fine with respecting each other and the families, so I’m letting them call the shots.

(She’s 18 and on birth control. She still gets to decide who shares her bed )