Im not a parent but look after my siblings after my mother took ill and dad works full time. My 14 year old sister is completely out of control. She was close to getting kicked out of school until she was moved to a really good secondary school she didnt even last a month before getting kicked out now shes close to getting kicked out of the school shes moved back to after they reluctantly had her back. We have already had the police to our door twice already for criminal damage and have been told if she does anything else she will be locked up. Shes having to attend young offenders. She lies about where shes been/going she went out drinking a few times with 'friends'. She shouts, screams, swears at pretty much everyone. Shes ran away a few times. Nothing works, take her phone and ground her she will be good until shes allowed out and her phone back. She just finds it all a joke when you try and knock some sense into her by telling her what will happen if she doesnt change her ways. Half our family has nothing to do with my parents and younger siblings because of her behaviour towards them. She has so much going for her to its so frustrating she has top grades and plays for [name removed] academy shes been scouted play for a team which is one step closer to playing professionally. She wants to be a footballer or a pilot in the army but wont if she doesnt change. If anyone has any advice I would be greatful we dont know where to go from here