Her attitude is vile.
All the way home, she was chanting (off and on) "I hate you, I hate you with every fibre of my being". Screaming, crying, kicking my arm and as title, opened the car door. I had to pull over onto the hard shoulder so she could shut it.
When we got home, I had to lock her in the house as she was threatening to do a runner. This resulted in her climbing out onto a flat roof and jumping off. She walked back through the door like she was cock of the walk.
Things have changed since she fell out with her 2 friends at the end of yr 10. She is now friendly with a girl from an out of school activity, she is a year older and trouble. Did finish school, albeit with one GCSE, after a failed managed move in yr11.
My lovely polite child has turned into an opiniated, disrespectful, shouty, entitled horrible person.
I am out of my depth, we need help but where will we get that help?
Had a meeting with school, who were great but all she did was cry and shutdown, giving yes/no answers. She spoke to me like shit, which surprised the head of year, as he had never seen, or thought of her like that.
I stopped her doing her after school activity, hence her attempt to exit the car at 70mph.
There is probably more to tell but I am just exhausted by it all.
What on earth do I do to help her get back on track. I am worried for her future. She refuses to look round colleges and has yet to apply anywhere.
I just don't know what I can do to help her 