They are constant at the moment. Last weekend she promised improvement. Lasted four days. Then Friday she kicked off and sent me vicious texts while I was at work. Apologised later, said she waa disappointed in herself, so I let it go. Then yesterday we were in town for something else, half an hour before we had to leave she decided she needed a new coat - she has a coat, just doesn't like it. I said no time now, but I would take her the next day or next weekend. Not good enough, apparently as a mother I should be able to figure out how to do it NOW.
She was mainly jealous because dd1 and ds were getting things and she wasn't - but I would have happily bought her a different coat had she found one in the time available.
Also on Thursday I had taken her alone xmas shopping and out for dinnner.
She ruined AGAIN what had been a really nice afternoon. I am still fuming. I have taken her screens off her but what else can I do to stop these tantrums? They happen at least twice a week and make my life a misery.