Very embarassing........blush

[crispyduck]

DD1 came to me tonight before settling into bed.

Whats a vibrator, mum?
She is 12.

Please advise? x

i think first you have to get the context and see how the question came about. thats important.

next i would assess whether she knows the basics of sex. only you know your child.

assuming she does - she should imo - i would say this

" sex is meant to be enjoyable, this is a tool which helps some women have a good time"

if it goes further - i think you will have to actually say the word "orgasm"

hmmm- i had the mummy wants a w**ker question from dd at 12 ?
Baby monitor was on and we were in the nursery - all i could hear was dh hooting downstairs !

sorry meant to say whats

this reminds me of one time when i was away, and two of my kids went rummaging in my room.

i got a phone call from my then h, saying he had found them swordfighting in the hall with 2 of my vibes....

Finally had the chat, It went ok, tbh she knows alot more than what I thought, she asked me if I had one though

Tortoise, your DS's 'boner' comment reminds me of the story DS told me about his A level English class a year or so ago:

Young, inexperienced teacher, thought that one of the class had rather over-emphasised his point?, used the ?dog with a bone? metaphor

?Colin?s not only got hold of his bone, he?s really shaking it about ?. ?

25 17 year old boys in total hysterics & one very embarrassed teacher?.