Basically she lies, swears at me and her teachers, having sex, drinking, smoking, truanting sanctions such as removing phone, taking away pocket money, grounding do not work. Asked for help from Social Services as she is violent towards me and my younger children, they sent out a woman who basically puts condoms on bananas for a living, daughter has told her I beat her up and don't cook her any tea, had to remove her to my mums as scared of what she will do next. Anyone else having problems getting help? I arranged counselling for her she has been to two sessions, took her to GP they referred to the banana lady????