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Teenager and friend home alone?

13 replies

Neverenoughhoursintheday · 07/10/2014 21:26

Would you let your teen (14) bring a mate home from school with him when you're not around - though will be back in an hour? Teen is fine, I know his friend and he seems ok but don't know him or his family that well.

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BobPatandIgglePiggle · 07/10/2014 21:29

Yes. I would.

Neverenoughhoursintheday · 07/10/2014 22:15

Thanks Bob, anyone else?

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twins2010 · 07/10/2014 22:16

Assuming you trust your teen I would too

DramaAlpaca · 07/10/2014 22:17

Yes I would allow this and have often done so.

MrsMcRuff · 07/10/2014 22:23

Is it from the pov of them getting up to mischief, or not knowing whether the other boy's parents would approve?

I think its pretty usual for 14 yr olds to be in the house on their own for a while. They'll probably be on the X-Box or the like?

Cardriver · 07/10/2014 22:31

Yes I would

Neverenoughhoursintheday · 07/10/2014 22:55

Yes its pov of house still in one piece and food left in the cupboard (as if!)

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ProbablyMe · 07/10/2014 22:56

I would and do.

friendofsadgirl · 07/10/2014 23:08

Hide your favourite biscuits, set the ground rules and warn of consequences if they don't respect your home and your trust. IME giving my stepson a bit of freedom at that age made him behave and gave me just a teeny bit of a 'cool' rating...

MrsMcRuff · 08/10/2014 09:27

Well, op, did you, and was it ok? I do like a happy ending Grin

Madmog · 09/10/2014 14:45

Providing you can trust them both, and are reasonably sure they will follow any ground rules.

AnyFucker · 09/10/2014 14:46

Sounds ok to me

Boysandme · 09/10/2014 14:47

Yes I would. My 13yo Yr9 DS is regularly on his own for a couple of hours. Certain friends are also allowed it be here but only a couple that I know well, others would be allowed if I was due to be home shortly.

If you trust your DS then you probably trust his choice of friend too?

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