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Depressed and unemployed young adult

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winty1 · 21/01/2014 21:38

Has anybody got experience of a negative, unmotivated, depressed unemployed young adult who cannot see or hear that there are opportunities, it just takes time, and who cannot see a future, and has a reason why nothing will work - apprenticeships, work, training, voluntary work. I don't know what to do to make her see her life isn't so bad, she suffers social anxiety, but obviously the more she hides away, the worse it gets; something she acknowledges.

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HorsePetal · 21/01/2014 21:39

How old is she? Poor thing Hmm

winty1 · 21/01/2014 21:52

20, she hated School but did reasonably well because she had almost 100% attendance, problems started once she went to college, two, both of which she dropped out. Since then she has had two very short term jobs that haven't worked out.

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Earlybird · 21/01/2014 21:56

If she is not comfortable interacting with her peers/has no confidence, is she comfortable with children or animals? Could she do some volunteer work with either to give her a purpose and reason to get out of bed in the morning?

what did she used to enjoy doing before she got so insular?

Could there be a medical reason for her situation (depression, etc)?

MrsBright · 22/01/2014 08:30

Go to your GP.

Depressed people need help. She is now in a downward spiral of depression/feeling useless that just fuels the depression. Make an appointment for her today.

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