Has anybody got experience of a negative, unmotivated, depressed unemployed young adult who cannot see or hear that there are opportunities, it just takes time, and who cannot see a future, and has a reason why nothing will work - apprenticeships, work, training, voluntary work. I don't know what to do to make her see her life isn't so bad, she suffers social anxiety, but obviously the more she hides away, the worse it gets; something she acknowledges.