If they go to a state secondary school then the answers for a number 2 is a definitive no (well for guys anyway.)
Taking a pee is a necessity because there is no way you can hold that in for a whole day.
For example here are just a few defects of the toilets at my old school:
- Apsolutely stunk
- Cubicles had no locks (they were broken)
- Cubicles mostly had no doors (they were broken off by chavs.)
- Most of the time there was some chav smoking a joint in there
- If by some miracle the above wasn't true then good luck with the toilet being in one piece or not blocked and overflowing.
- If chavs come into the toilet (the room obviously not the actual cublicle), and they realise you are taking a dump then prepare for some abuse/door kicking.
In my whole time at secondary I only once did a dump at school (I was feeling unwell and to do this I managed to sneak into the sixth form building to use theirs because they were very slightly cleaner and had less chavs.)
However at my college/sixth form (it has both in the name so I don't know which to use.) I would be happy to (and probably have in the past year) taken a dump in all the toilets as they are much cleaner and the maximum extent of vandalism that there is is normally a joke written on the door (Personally I quite like it when people do this as it gives you something to read whilst doing your buisness, my favourite was when someone wrote a full rhyming poem over the joys and relief of taking a large poo.).
This isn't a private sixth form either, its just a state one (The Sixth Form College Farnborough if you are wondering ;) ), this is abit off topic however I would so advise parents to send their kids to a specialised sixth form/college for this reason, chavs don't normally make the effort to change schools to go there and people tend to mature alot more simply by changing surroundings. However all of thats probably for another topic.