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He hid me that he had a kid

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Heymtl · 06/03/2022 00:56

He hid from me that he had a child…We started dating and from day one he had confirmed to me that he had no children. We saw each other almost everyday day, I even went to his house (no baby accessories) . But one morning, a person was trying to call me by unknown message multiple time. It was the child's mother who discovered our text messages. She starts telling me "he's my man, he's mine!! You are just a h**" and she insults me. She told me that everything was in his name even the car he uses. In short, it seems that she was paying her bills. I've blocked him everywhere but I sometimes think about the situation and I have a certain incomprehension. Why lie about that?

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CheshireChat · 06/03/2022 01:02

1- you've posted in tech tips so you're better off reporting your thread and asking for it to be moved to Relationships.
2- did you ever ask him?

ClariceQuiff · 06/03/2022 01:08

He lied because he thought having a child would make him less desirable on the dating scene. From what you say, it sounds likely that he was still with the DC's mother and pretending to be single.

In other words, bog-standard liar/cheat out for what he could get.

Be glad you found out sooner rather than la

ClariceQuiff · 06/03/2022 01:11

.. later (bloody adverts slowing my browser).

kjv1234 · 06/03/2022 01:12

Been there. Knew I wouldn't date someone with children so hid the fact that he'd fathered one- during our on/off relationship of 6 years! Wasn't until I was married a few years later that I discovered it all... then was so glad someone so awful was out of my life.

AHungryCaterpillar · 06/03/2022 01:17

My ex lied about having a child as before we met I told him I wouldn’t date a man with a child so he lied, I only found out when I became pregnant as he didn’t have contact with the child 😒

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