Go on help me pack my bags? What should I buy?

[Nuttybear]

I'm going on a beach holiday to Spain. The first in many many years. Last time I went I was size 10/12 and toned. Now I'm a Mum with a tum and a bum size 14. I look like an a Mediterranean Mama that will hug a kid and make pasta but, I think my husband and I would like a sexy, smooth 'don't let that child near me with that chocolate lolly' look Brown hair Brown skin 5'7. I need what everyone needs but I don't know what I've only been camping in the last 5 years waterproofs & an old cossie are the only main things I've needed HELP

BUMP

Last year on a holiday to Greece I took:

2 bikinis - both coloured, cup-sized ones from M&S;
2 beach dresses - v light, short cotton;
1 sarong - I found this really useful although many people on here hate them. I wore it as a skirt and as a top, with shorts;
couple of pairs of shorts;
flip flops;
sturdier sandals for walking;
prettier sandals for evening;
long silk skirt for a day in town instead of on the beach;
range of camisoles;
silk or cotton skirts and dresses for evenings.

Thank you very much. What did you wear for a posh night out?

Posh? The poshest we did was a slightly more expensive meal and drinks. I wore a silk dress and pretty flat sandals.

I thought I might go with this stuff as I already have a red kaftan beach cover thingy.
swimsuit
Bikini

[[http://www.fitflop.com/products/walkstar/#product_032_redfit flops]This because I've got flat feet