So need help! I am trying to buy swimwear for a holiday and cant find ANYTHING i think will suit me, and really want to shop online as trying on in RL changing rooms brings on depression like you wouldn't believe . I am 49, and 5'5", 10 stone, and very roughly 36/29/39 with a faint tummy....sounds ok, I know, and dressed I don't mind my shape but in swimwear my confidence goes to pieces: I am conscious of my age, my saggy post child boobs, my lack of tone etc etc and I never, ever seem to get it right! Last year I bought tankinis from TOAST but the boy legs seemed to look like 1950's pants on and they did nothing for my figure, plus the colours were horrible. I have just tried Figleaves .com and everything seems to be made for skinny Aussie blondes . Would be really really grateful for suggestions for bright, flattering swimwear (am thinking one pieces this year) that might boost my confidence a bit? or am I asking too much?