Is it nice in real life ? How fitted is the fitted styling? I am contemplating purchase-anyone seen any alternative velvet or cord coats-it's finally time to retire my black velvet pea coat- much admired by a friend last year and I had to confess it was older than her daughter- purchased in a Next sale way back in the 90s and faithfully brought out every December- just feels wrong any other time of the year-any info on the Boden one would be great