am going to a ball soon. Have got two ball gowns, one black one red, not sure which one to wear. They both fit ok and are similar in style. Would love to wear red in a way to be bold and different and last two i have been to i have wore black as i suppose i just feel 'safer' and slimmer. Any opinions out there is anyone still up??? Also if red what shoes.....silver/black/gold......or do i go out and buy red ones(eek)...