PLease help me decide what to wear for a trendy hen do where the other hens are ten years younger than me

[Monkeyandbooba]

I have massive self confidence issues at the moment (BF 7mth old baby, carrying excess baby weight etc etc) and have no idea what to wear. The do is a meal followed by a cocktail masterclass at a posh cocktail bar.

I'm a 14 at the moment, pear shaped, bit flabby all over and 5'4".

Help!

Oh and outfit must be cheap

Something like this? Either over jeans or black tights with high shoes and a cami underneath.

This is pretty but not sure how well it would work on a pear shape. This is nice and simple and this top could look good with a pair of jeans and a cardi/shrug?

The boobtube top is nice but a bit short for me, I think I look better with a longer top.

how about simple black with silver clutch, silver sandals and silver chunky bangle?

nice colour

this with high heels and nice jewellery

can you do short sleeves?
do you prefer trousers or a skirt/dress?

i think a jacket is good for concelaing boobs

I like a dress and can do short sleeves, I have thin wrists

this style of dress looks very good on curvier girls.

would look fab with opaque tights and stillettos or mary janes.

I like the dress Nappy but wouldn't it accentuate my hips rather than disguise my pear shape??