I have natuarlly curly hair - or at least my lower layers are curly, top layers are wavey but now I have the MN haircut I have a it more bounce in the top and can show off the bottom. How do I make my curls look nice rather than unkempt? When I wake up they are nicely defined - if a little unruley. As soon as I put a brush through it pulls them all out to a soft fluffy frizzy wave. I know that I shouldn't brush them...but how do I do from unkept just woken up to nice curls without a brush. Do I need some products on it? Any tips?