Large boobied lady here too (Tis Flame).
I have spent six weeks trying to find tops that suit me and cover bra straps. I have found... two! Just two.
Wearing strapless bras when you are hooooooooooooge is fine for a night out, but bloody uncomfortable for a whole day.
I hate the bra strap look when the straps are in different places to the top, but I am at the stage of really not caring - why should I have to wear sleeves when others don't???
Oh, and the "hidden" support ones generally make you look like you have a rubber ring round your chest - or are measured in dress sizes so I need a 16-18, which is all flappy and huge round a size 12 waist.
Bravissimo charges £30 upwards for tops for large boobies, which I can't afford.
Pretty, clean straps are about all I can do (and normally not overly pretty because of course, if you have hammock sized bras you clearly don't deserve pretty straps either ).
Oh, and I like pretty things showing too
Psycho doesn't care if her bras (or thongs from what I've seen ) show... she is a hussy!!
If people don't wanna see these things - don't look too closely. Or, as I said when I wanted to walk down the corridor naked while I was in labour - If people stare they are just RUDE!!!!