I bought a fitted cotton/elastane mix dress from Gap (obviously no links due to them not being with the times...). Its lovely, short and sort of sucky in-y. (go and try it it is great). Now want to wear to friends 40th Bday - so bought elasticated belt with buckle, and magenta cardi and bold necklace. Should I do heeled boots, or magenta f-mes (but killers). The belt makes the skirt short and feels really tarty. Is it too much for someone in their late 30s...