Just turned 40 -have never quite discovered what my style is. Veer wildly between thinking that I should buy a few very expensive things which will last years and then getting £9.99 H&M stuff. What should I be buying for autumn/winter so that I look vaguely trendy and not mutton dressed as lamb? Need a coat, boots and something that is not my usual "jeans and white T-shirt + cardi" look. Size 10 and 5'4", so nothing for Nigella Lawson or Amazonion model types!!