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What shoes with this dress

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Buzzlightfear · 17/10/2026 13:39

I've recently bought this dress for a Christmas party. It's lovely on but I'm not sure what shoes to wear with it.

My days of very high heels are a long way behind me 😄 if I do do heels then a block or kitten heels is probably best. I'll wear it with black tights too.

Any help gratefully received!

https://www.apricotonline.co.uk/ruched-velvet-bodycon-mini-dress/5052603121113Size18.html?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23759315445&gbraid=0AAAAADwwjWzmDIHqhyzRjgQy2kKdO-YS4&gclid=CjwKCAjwuczWBhA9EiwAYGgEofkbWPX3CtFgPkD6V2gUWKLuPUrNtGj8qILfYJ3QJrfYllJGKUBRtxoC5mUQAvD_BwE

Ruched Velvet Bodycon Mini Dress | Apricot Clothing

Ruched Velvet Bodycon Mini Dress from Apricot Clothing. Beautiful women’s clothing with inspired designs and prints. Great quality women’s wear with free delivery available.

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QueenMummyTheFirst · 17/10/2026 17:57

Ooh that is beautiful!

I would probably go with ballet flats in a metallic silver or gold. Alternatively, a mary jane flat or small heel.

I know they aren't the most fashionable brand, but Hotter sell pumps and small heels which are really comfortable and look lovely.

E.g.
https://www.hotter.com/violet-shoes-beige-3009

https://www.hotter.com/duet-heels-metallic-3232

I have some of the flats which I was given. I would never have thought of going into Hotter for party shoes, but they're now my favourite with a LBD

QueenMummyTheFirst · 17/10/2026 18:00

If you have a bit more of a budget to spend, I've seen these recommended on here as very comfy party shoes. They do heels as well as flats, but these are my favourite 😍

https://esskashoes.com/products/aurora-gold

Aurora Gold

Gold metallic T-bar flat shoes with a closed toe and ankle strap. A polished, comfortable style that brings subtle shine to everyday looks.

https://esskashoes.com/products/aurora-gold

Puppylucky · 17/10/2026 18:13

I think it depends how tall you are and how good your legs are to be honest. If you have slender long legs then flats or low blocks would look amazing but if you are short or your legs aren't so slender you may need the help a higher heel will give.

boxofshite · 17/10/2026 18:37

I agree that your leg length and shape is important
some options

https://www.next.co.uk/style/su987565/g43646?gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23944989798&gbraid=0AAAAADm_5UVg7t7BN08HpXnDuIB4F9I_b&gclid=CjwKCAjwuczWBhA9EiwAYGgEobW4FlCAspm0gZ9JolhrCimkUwi7Y7da4lC6ZtIvTgtuXcnTUquo8BoCn3UQAvD_BwE#g43646

https://www.marksandspencer.com/ankle-strap-kitten-heel-peep-toe-sandals/p/clp60787709?color=BLACK&extid=af_Comparison+Shopping+Service+%28CSS%29_Shareight+%28Octer%29+CSS_----AWIN-ms--_-863943&sv_campaign_id=863943&sv_tax1=affiliate&sv_tax3=Shareight+%28Octer%29+CSS&sv_tax4=0&sv_affiliate_id=863943&sv1=affiliate&sv_campaign_id=863943&awc=1402_1792258393_b30c2decae4e4f11b9b75a8b1239d969

https://www.dorothyperkins.com/product/dorothy-perkins-faith-amara-faux-suede-open-toe-high-block-heeled-sandals_bqq24006?colour=natural+black&size=8&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21063220019&gbraid=0AAAAABeX1o4hDOIXTwQui8GghpqZ-C415&gclid=CjwKCAjwuczWBhA9EiwAYGgEobXt7DbDBbMldCuNHzHAHVypN8ZxYxi0p_9YgqRL0GDcmHYxrfofjhoC4vUQAvD_BwE

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Buzzlightfear · 17/10/2026 19:00

I'm 5ft 5 and quite long bodied so definitely not long, slender legs 😄 they've got a nice enough shape though. I agree I probably do need a bit of a heel

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Buzzlightfear · 17/10/2026 19:02

I do like both of those but I'll be wearing tights (it's a pretty short dress and I'm very pale, legs would be blue without in December 😄) so I think I want a closed toe

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boxofshite · 17/10/2026 19:11

closed toe options

https://www2.hm.com/en_gb/productpage.1304320004.html?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=mkt_gb%7Cmpl_google%7Clng_eng%7Catc_activity%7City_generic%7Cobj_omni-sales%7Ccpt_shopping%7Cdct_women%7Cmi_gbgu06gp3aa5%7Cftx_competitors&utm_term=&hier_id=go_cmp-12828904706_adg-120373698886_ad-517818111585_pla-362029177407_dev-m_ext-_prd-1304320004004_sig-CjwKCAjwuczWBhA9EiwAYGgEoVoAGuXgSjiXSngs3cfE-G5UpGiQTDbEUtqexL6aXI5em5xTkF_ciBoCbRUQAvD_BwE&utm_source=Google&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=12828904706&gbraid=0AAAAADvrmzRe8akS7IDGzIMgdecKnNziv&gclid=CjwKCAjwuczWBhA9EiwAYGgEoVoAGuXgSjiXSngs3cfE-G5UpGiQTDbEUtqexL6aXI5em5xTkF_ciBoCbRUQAvD_BwE

https://www.office.co.uk/view/product/office_catalog/2,33/5447900000?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22325579703&gbraid=0AAAAAD19QKERjrE54HMVSK5eimrj806m4&gclid=CjwKCAjwuczWBhA9EiwAYGgEocX0jwj75qQaGiyXkUUE3LU_V7QPzndl1C_dAdQP4ryGpkHSja8a2hoC-i4QAvD_BwE

https://www.zalando.co.uk/anna-field-classic-heels-black-an611b0b9-q11.html?ssku=AN611B0B9-Q110039000&lang=en&otid=default&wmc=SEM440_NB_GO._3909818306_605707574_24315859821.&opc=2211&mpp=google%7Cv1%7C%7Cpla-293946777986%7C%7C9045914%7C%7Cg%7Cm%7C%7C107769544221%7C%7Cpla%7CAN611B0B9-Q110039000%7C293946777986%7C1%7C&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=605707574&gbraid=0AAAAADM17YYuksaL_8o7e-RhZo4iPHxn9&gclid=CjwKCAjwuczWBhA9EiwAYGgEofkalY4Wr2H3t57mrKfjV_Dp8bvZTQ1JjcaT6tgCCqWDSrnNnECiiRoCZE8QAvD_BwE

OFFICE Mentor Two Part Platform Heels Black - Mid Heels

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