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Are these too manly?

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Batsratscatsgnats · 13/09/2026 18:13

Honestly do you see Man's shoes here? I always considered docs as unisex but ASOS are absolutely marketing these as mens.
I really want a pair of brown dm shoes to wear with jeans / smart trousers etc. Could these work?

Sorry about the weird formatting. Writing this on my phone and not sure what happened there

Are these too manly?
Are these too manly?
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teaandtoastwithmarmite · 13/09/2026 23:10

I’d wear them

paristotokyo · Yesterday 01:36

I don’t think they are ‘manly’ at all. I would wear them but find docs sooo difficult to wear in.

OverpricedCupcake · Yesterday 01:40

Yes, but why does that matter?
If you like them, wear them, I'm fairly sure you won't suddenly grow a penis.

thedevilinablackdress · Yesterday 08:02

They show up in the women's section of section of the DM website when you browse for shoes, if that helps. The link comes up as unisex when you click on it. Wear the shoes. I do.

https://www.drmartens.com/uk/en_gb/1461-3-eye-crazy-horse-leather-lace-up-shoes-cherry-red/p/11838601

Additup · Yesterday 08:35

I have some shoes very, very similar. They are manly but that's why I like them. They are also very comfortable and stylish.

Obviously, I have never ever been mistaken for a man because of a pair of shoes.

LaurieFairyCake · Yesterday 08:49

It’s all in the styling 🤷‍♀️ I wore those throughout the 80’s with the flowery dresses and velvet jackets

Obviously no one mistook me for ‘manly’…

MmeGallimaufry · Yesterday 09:12

I think you'd be fine. Get your EU size as EU sizes are unisex and UK sizes aren't. The other thing to be aware of is that some footwear brands do actually take account of sex differences in foot shape. These are only population differences, so an individual's foot shape may not show the sex-typical shape. It's a while since I looked at this, but the one I remember is that women tend to have narrower heels and more widening from the midfoot to the toes.

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