I am a redhead and between tints so have blonde lashes. They’re long but thin as I’m trying to get my natural lashes back after extensions 😡. My own fault but here we are. I just saw an ad fr Laura Geller mascar that is likely too good to be true. I need thickening but not clumping ad have length bit no volume. What mascara do I need ? Help a miserable peri woman out please. I don’t feel I can carry off extensions any more but miss my lashes so much