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Work outfit ideas after weight loss and struggling with smart tops

8 replies

viccabelle · Yesterday 19:57

Hi. I have lost weight and gone from a UK 18-20 to a 12 and I am really struggling with dressing now, particularly for work. I used to hide in oversized tunics and leggings and really stuggle to feel confident whatever I wear. I have a few pairs of smart wide leg trousers that I feel ok in but I'm struggling with what to wear on top and have been defaulting to plain fitted t shirts tucked in.
I've been looking online but feeling quite uninspired and wonder if anyone has any suggestions. I still have a larger tummy that I can't seem to shift but my waist is quite narrow so I try to emphasise that while hiding the belly. Any suggestions for smart tops/outfits would be really appreciated as would ideas of brands I could seek out as I used to shop in very few stores before. Thanks so much

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madaboutpurple · Yesterday 20:49

Would it be helpful to see a style consultant?. They would advise you on what colours would suit you as well as advise on styles.

viccabelle · Yesterday 21:26

madaboutpurple · Yesterday 20:49

Would it be helpful to see a style consultant?. They would advise you on what colours would suit you as well as advise on styles.

Quite possibly yes! Where would one find such a thing? Would you recommend any in particular?

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SweetBaklava · Yesterday 21:36

Can highly recommend Emily Innes AKA ‘Style me Happy’ you’ll find her on Instagram

viccabelle · Yesterday 22:12

SweetBaklava · Yesterday 21:36

Can highly recommend Emily Innes AKA ‘Style me Happy’ you’ll find her on Instagram

Thank you will check her out now

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Dontevenlookatme · Yesterday 22:15

How are your arms, OP? If you’re confident about them a sleeveless waistcoat might look nice, there are lots about on Vinted.

viccabelle · Yesterday 22:38

Dontevenlookatme · Yesterday 22:15

How are your arms, OP? If you’re confident about them a sleeveless waistcoat might look nice, there are lots about on Vinted.

They are ok. I have bingo wings but I've made my peace with them 😅 I've never worn a waistcoat before but will certainly check some out thank you!

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timeforteaandcakes · Today 07:26

I had the same thing @viccabelle, I didn’t want to wear what I had previously worn so after my weight loss I was lost.
what I did was go to lots of charity shops and buy things for a £1 or two just to try styles.
I know you could try things on in changing rooms but trying things out in my real life made me come to realise what suits me and my lifestyle .
and things that don’t suit can just be re donated

MintChocolate123 · Today 07:31

A blazer over the t shirt as the weather gets cooler will look great

there are lots of lovely shirts about have a look on M&S

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