I keep seeing the 40+ mid size fashion people on Instagram saying they swear by control pants to make their outfits look better and they do seem too but any I've had are either very tight and wouldn't be comfortable to be at work or out socialising in or they come up to your boobs, make me too warm and/or roll down.
Is there such a thing as every day control pants some middle ground between being like a stuffed sausage or a bowl of jelly?