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What should I wear to a daytime wedding with formal cocktail dress code?

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Enterthewolves · 11/08/2026 14:12

I have been invited to a daytime wedding in September with a ‘formal cocktail’ dress code. My first question is what does that mean, googling tells me smarter than a summer frock but not a ball dress - but apart from that anything?! Second question - my googling tells me a jumpsuit is allowed and black is allowed but is this really ok? I have always been told black is not ok.

Thank you!

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RaraRachael · 11/08/2026 14:21

Thank goodness dress codes aren't a thing where I live.
I wouldn't have a clue what "formal cocktail dress" is 😅

notacooldad · 11/08/2026 14:46

Thank goodness dress codes aren't a thing where I live
I wouldn't have a clue what "formal cocktail dress" is 😅
Neither does op!

LemonTT · 11/08/2026 14:48

RaraRachael · 11/08/2026 14:21

Thank goodness dress codes aren't a thing where I live.
I wouldn't have a clue what "formal cocktail dress" is 😅

It’s something the yanks do when they marry and insist on evening wear.

Viperregency · 11/08/2026 14:56

Gettingbysomehow · 11/08/2026 14:18

Don’t wear black to someone’s wedding, it’s really not done unless you know the bride is good with it, .and that dress is a bit much.

just wear a nice dress , something like these would work.

https://www.reiss.com/style/su708052/h19167

https://www.meandem.com/deep-v-neck-bias-cut-maxi-dress-bandeau-cocoa-brown

https://www.meandem.com/silk-satin-draping-wisteria-print-full-length-dress-tie-pink-cinnamon-brown

a jump suit can work yes, but only black if you know the bride is ok with it.

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Gettingbysomehow · 11/08/2026 19:34

Exactly I know black isnt wedding I just wanted to show basic suitable dress styles.

Enterthewolves · 11/08/2026 21:38

notacooldad · 11/08/2026 14:46

Thank goodness dress codes aren't a thing where I live
I wouldn't have a clue what "formal cocktail dress" is 😅
Neither does op!

I really don’t! Thank you all.

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PhaedraTwo · 11/08/2026 23:32

notacooldad · 11/08/2026 14:46

Thank goodness dress codes aren't a thing where I live
I wouldn't have a clue what "formal cocktail dress" is 😅
Neither does op!

Neither probably does the person who sent the invitation.

notacooldad · 12/08/2026 09:55

Thank goodness dress codes aren't a thing where I live
I wouldn't have a clue what "formal cocktail dress" is 😅
Neither does op!
I really don’t! Thank you all.

I was being lighthearted Op. I wouldnt know what to wear either!!!

Enterthewolves · 12/08/2026 10:01

I was hoping I could wear a (smart) black jumpsuit I already own, I’ll check with the bride about black and if that’s a no think again. I’m 52 5’6’ pear shaped (8 on top with minimal boobs, and a 12 on the bottom) I’m not a dressy person. Shift dresses make me look shapeless, fit and flare make me feel like Milly Molly Mandy and I live in black! Arghhhh

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