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Help finding a black tie ball gown to suit my shape and colouring

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OneBusyFinch · 29/05/2026 23:27

I’d love some help please.

I need to find a dress but ideally a gown to wear to a black tie ball at the end of June. I need to be able to dance in it.

I’m 5 foot 3 and a hourglass size 12 but on my way to size 10 thanks to weight loss injections. I’m a jewel winter with pale skin, hazel eyes and dark brown hair. I don’t suit high necklines.

Budget up to £500 - I really want to look good!

I found two gorgeous gowns on the outnet from Marchesa Notte but one is navy which is a colour I don’t think would suit even though I love the style.

the other I love the look of but I’m not sure of the colours in the floral details.

all suggestions gratefully received

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PhaedraTwo · 29/05/2026 23:40

I don't like either of them. I particularly don't like the floral one. I usually really like floral dresses but the split is some sort of weird attempt to sexify up a floral dress. It would be much nicer without the split.

I don't like dresses with splits and the navy one in particular will be a pain to wear sitting down or dancing.

OneBusyFinch · 29/05/2026 23:50

minipie · 29/05/2026 23:47

Sorry just realised my link isn’t right

meant this one

Thank you! @minipie that dress is lovely in the hibiscus tea colour and would suit my colouring

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k1233 · 30/05/2026 01:23

OneBusyFinch · 29/05/2026 23:50

Thank you! @minipie that dress is lovely in the hibiscus tea colour and would suit my colouring

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The hibiscus colour is beautiful

LesMize · 30/05/2026 21:10

minipie · 29/05/2026 23:47

Sorry just realised my link isn’t right

meant this one

This is a lovely choice. It will be perfect for the time of year and will have gorgeous movement if you're dancing in it!

LarksAscending · 30/05/2026 21:14

PhaedraTwo · 29/05/2026 23:57

Sorry but these would look awful on an hourglass… they’re for willowy sorts

3luckystars · 30/05/2026 23:05

Would you have any interest in a Rixo dress? I know nothing about fashion but I like the colour of this one ;

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OneBusyFinch · 01/06/2026 19:08

Thank you so much for all the suggestions and links - I enjoyed looking at different styles and discovering new brands.

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Leeds157 · 01/06/2026 20:49

This? I’m a size 12, also 5 foot 3 and wore this to my work Christmas do and loved it! Could dance in it too, but did have to keep pulling the neckline up as my bra was showing

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