DownByTheLakeWhereTheWatermelonsGrow ·
18/05/2026 18:53
I need help!
I'm joining an expedition cruise this summer. It's to a remote adventurous location, but the ship is marketed as boutique with high ticket prices.
The website says smart casual, but all photos are well on the smarter side of what I'm used to. I've also been told from a colleague that it's not jeans and tshirt kind of clothing. There is a cocktail event and a captains dinner.
I am going on board as an invited guest as part of my job. This isn't really my social scene and I want to get it right.
What I'd really like is a couple of smart tops, a pair of trousers, and a skirt that could all be worn with each other or with casual T-shirts to dress down.
I don't want to turn up in a full length ball gown and feel like an idiot if everyone is in a shirt and chinos, and equally nervous about the other way around.
Late 30s, size 10, 5' 8". Square shoulders, flat chested, used to be athletic but now a bit squidgy in the middle. Not got a huge budget, £30-50 per item.