Is there such a thing as a dress with a collar suitable for an autumn wedding? I have always struggled with dresses but have never been confident enough to not go down the dress route (yet). I prefer fairly androgynous, slightly masculine and structured clothes and trying to find a dress that fits the bill for a wedding and doesn't just look like I've taken a wrong turn from an office lunch is really difficult. I also prefer dark colours but don't want to look like the grim reaper. I've had lovely pencil dress - collarless but still structured - on Vinted for ages but it doesn't suit autumn, a wedding or an autumn wedding. Same with any shirt dresses I've found, they just don't hit quite right. A tailored dress would always be knee-length for me but otherwise it would need to be midi. Anyone else the same and found anything suitable?