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OK for a 60th birthday party?

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GrossEncountersoftheTurdKind · 01/04/2026 13:52

Hi. I don't post on this board very often but I really need some advice. I have a family members 60th party coming up and I want to wear something nice. The problem is, I have a stoma bag and as a result of the stoma surgery, a massive hernia. I look about 8 months pregnant, I kid you not! I'm very slim as well so you can really see it in most clothes. (I am awaiting abdominal reconstruction surgery but that's a whole other thread!)

I haven't bought any new clothes recently but I do want something new for this party. I need something with a long top that skims over the hernia or I will be self conscious all night. I have bought this and it actually looks great, it hides the hernia really well, but I'm second guessing myself now. Will this be OK do you think if I jazz it up a bit with some jewellery or does it look a bit officey? Help!

LINEN BLEND BLAZER AND WIDE-LEG TROUSERS | ZARA United Kingdom

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TokyoSushi · 01/04/2026 13:54

Really lovely OP, hope you're much better soon.

Callmebubblesdarlingeverybodydoes · 01/04/2026 13:55

It looks lovely!
I think some white or silver accessories would be good to jazz it up a bit, or a bold pop of colour.

ithinkilikethislittlelife · 01/04/2026 13:57

That’s really nice. If you think it looks great then that’s all that matters . Have a great time.

CuriousKangaroo · 01/04/2026 13:57

I think it’s lovely and very stylish. Not too office-y at all. If it looks and feels good, then I hope you stop second guessing yourself and enjoy the outfit and the party.

Ophir · 01/04/2026 13:58

I love it and it’s right on trend, perfect

I’d keep any accessories simple, and just go for glam hair and makeup

Catcatcatcatcat · 01/04/2026 13:59

Looks perfect to me and I am 60

SkinnyOatFlatWhiteForMePlease · 01/04/2026 13:59

Gorgeous trouser suit, I hope it helps you to feel more confident.

Petrine · 01/04/2026 14:00

No need to dress it up OP - it looks very stylish.

Hope you have a great time!

GrossEncountersoftheTurdKind · 01/04/2026 15:00

Thank you all - I feel much better now!😍

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Tootyfilou · 01/04/2026 15:11

It's gorgeous, lovely taste OP! Hope you have a wonderful time.

CharlotteRumpling · 01/04/2026 15:12

I love that!

BetsyRegards · 01/04/2026 15:34

Really great suit!

Hope you have a brilliant time.

NewMauveSwan · 02/04/2026 10:38

I love it! I would wear a simple but colourful necklace for a flash of colour, the kind of thing FatFace usually have x

Littlejellyuk · 02/04/2026 11:00

That is a proper stylish outfit 💃 you will look fab 💕

GrossEncountersoftheTurdKind · 02/04/2026 13:02

Wow 100% approval! Thank you!

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