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‘Bedroom’ outfit for weekend away with new partner

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Hannah226 · 22/02/2026 21:36

Hotel break booked for next Friday, with my new partner. First after my divorce and really excited.

Any suggestions for something I can wear in the bedroom? I want to surprise him and look WOW.

Size 14, 5’8, open to all suggestions!

Thanks!

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OrlandointheWilderness · 22/02/2026 21:47

Love honey have some really lovely bits

Arlanymor · 22/02/2026 21:47

Batman!

Jokes aside, Ann Summers has never let me down.

Usernamenotfound1 · 22/02/2026 21:50

Do you think he’s planning his “bedroom outfit”?

just made me think.

i never saw the point. Uncomfortable, and only looked at for a few seconds before you get to the real wow…

OrlandointheWilderness · 23/02/2026 09:43

I've always loved dressing up in the bedroom! I wouldn’t be at all entertained if he appeared in a special outfit, but as I know my DP enjoys it and finds it a turn on I enjoy doing it for him. It gives me pleasure to give him pleasure because I love him!

BlackCat14 · 25/02/2026 10:29

Agree with @OrlandointheWilderness , it wouldn’t do anything for me to see my boyfriend in any sort of outfit, but every now and then it’s fun For us If I slip into something “wow”.
Not sure what your vibe is I’ve got a couple of things from this page…

https://www.annsummers.com/nightwear/all-nightwear/?page=4

I also think these look fun, I want to try one, maybe on our next weekend away! They do loads in amazon too, just google “body bow.”

https://giftstomorrow.co.uk/product/naughty-knot-black-body-bow-unwrap-my-sexy-body/

Black Naughty Knot Body Bow Outfit Underwear Sexy Lingerie

The Black Luxurious Naughty Knot! Guaranteed to add a bit of spice to the bedroom, the perfect birthday, Valentine's gift or naughty stocking filler.

https://giftstomorrow.co.uk/product/naughty-knot-black-body-bow-unwrap-my-sexy-body

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 25/02/2026 11:22

Boux avenue have some really nice stuff and I’ve always found it pretty comfortable and wearable. Get something in his face colour or red/black is always a shout.

corblimeyguvnr · 25/02/2026 11:27

Do you know for a fact he likes this kind of thing? Not all men do.

HowAmIGoingToBeAnOptimistAboutThis · 25/02/2026 13:31

Pour Moi has some lovely stuff and you get a discount when you sign up too.

MakeYourOwnSunshine · 25/02/2026 14:08

In the words of Monica Geller, "it really creeps me out choosing other people's sex clothes". 🤢

GoGoSuperBug · 25/02/2026 16:04

Whatever you pick make sure it is something you feel amazing in, not something you think he would like. Confidence is the sexiest thing anyone can wear to bed so by picking something that makes you feel good you are bound to have a good time and look great.

PrincessOfPreschool · 25/02/2026 16:32

I agree with PP that it's what makes you feel amazing. For me, a quality lace bra and thong would be best, probably in white or crushed raspberry. I would feel so self conscious in one of Ann Summers ones, which would make me feel embarrassed!

Bayou2000 · 01/03/2026 21:49

In a similar position. Spend a lot of time researching and then for valentines he bought me a retro t shirt of a band we both like and it prompted a conversation thar when we went away overnight that we would go for comfy and cosy in between being naked. It’s taken the stress out of it although I have invested in a matching dressing gown and short set, and have bought us fluffy socks.

Properjob · 01/03/2026 22:55

I always feel great in a black silk loose cami body. It's the poppers that do it 😁 and its a proper garment not a weird fetishy thing. Silk is always popular with guys Ive found! Have a great time OP! My FTAD coincided with the first non-wedding anniversary . Doubly satisfying 😃

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