Can you help me find a couple of dresses/outfits with quite specific criteria? I am in my mid-fifties, a size 20 (can be a 22 or even an 18 depending on the make/fit). I'm looking for two outfits for the same event: one for the day and another for the evening.
For the day event, I am open to ideas, I love bright colours and patterns. If it's relevant, I will be in a wheelchair during the day for a fairly relaxed, low-key group activity with around 30-40 people. However, for the evening, I definitely would like something blue and white, or blue and cream, and, in an ideal world, something Delft-inspired. The evening starts with a fine-dining group dinner. I will only use my wheelchair for transit to and from the event after the dinner and will be seated in the allocated seating for this.
For both outfits, I would like them to be as summery and thin as possible (it's likely to be hot where I'm going), and as I use a wheelchair, my clothes need to be comfortable for, and look good, sitting down - I don't like anything restrictive around my shoulders or stomach. I don't mind sleeveless for the right outfit, but my preference is for mid-length or short-sleeves, as I'm a bit bingo-wingish these days. I am fairly proportioned, but I do have a big stomach, so I would like to avoid anything very fitted or gathered over the waist.
I don't want to spend a fortune; it's not a particularly lavish occasion, but past experience tells me there'll be a whiff of the Hyacinths there, and a mix of European (and very glamourous beautiful) people, and I don't want to look like I popped into Primark for my frock. There'll be lots of photographs which will appear on a website after the event, and I already know that we'll be seated in a prominent position for the evening event.
Thanks to anyone who can give me some inspiration - and given my desire for a Delft nod, bonus points if you can work out what we're going to!