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Formal wedding

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Ifidget · 16/01/2026 12:49

I’m going to a very formal wedding in the Spring. It’s going to be church wedding with a do in a posh house afterwards- I am so out of my comfort zone!
I’m - short 5’2 with stubby legs and a bigger bust and tummy, chubby arms too.
I want to look really stylish, and young and cool, but have no idea what to wear!
I don’t mind spending some money (£250) on something fabulous I’ll wear again, but I really resent laying out this kind of money for polyester! Can I get something made of silk for this price?
help! Not sure what the weather will be doing either, so I have no idea where to start!

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CopeNorth · 16/01/2026 21:58

Ifidget · 16/01/2026 13:50

The I think what I really want is a long sleeve something or a wide legged silky jumpsuit

https://www.meandem.com/silk-wide-leg-jumpsuit-hibiscus-pink

I’m short too and love wearing a wide leg jumpsuit. It feels really fun. But still smart / formal

maybe also look at the Rixo and Sezane sale

Women's Pink Silk Wide-Leg Jumpsuit | ME+EM

ME+EM's Pink Silk Wide-Leg Jumpsuit is designed with hook-and-eye fastenings at the neckline to customise the amount of coverage. Shop now.

https://www.meandem.com/silk-wide-leg-jumpsuit-hibiscus-pink

Ifidget · 16/01/2026 22:16

CopeNorth · 16/01/2026 21:56

That is so cool! But they don’t have my size!

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CopeNorth · 16/01/2026 22:16

Ifidget · 16/01/2026 12:49

I’m going to a very formal wedding in the Spring. It’s going to be church wedding with a do in a posh house afterwards- I am so out of my comfort zone!
I’m - short 5’2 with stubby legs and a bigger bust and tummy, chubby arms too.
I want to look really stylish, and young and cool, but have no idea what to wear!
I don’t mind spending some money (£250) on something fabulous I’ll wear again, but I really resent laying out this kind of money for polyester! Can I get something made of silk for this price?
help! Not sure what the weather will be doing either, so I have no idea where to start!

https://www.wolfandbadger.com/uk/miss-rhodeo-jumpsuit/

also Wolf & Badger can have some cool stuff. It’s lots of different designers…

CopeNorth · 16/01/2026 22:34

TemporarilyCantDoMyself · 16/01/2026 13:36

Farm Rio dresses - not silk, but gorgeous. NOT polyester!
https://farmrio.uk/search?q=Dresses#search-result-1

Yes! Some amazing stuff and you’d probably wear a lot of this stuff again on holiday

Pipsquiggle · 16/01/2026 22:44

Ifidget · 16/01/2026 22:16

That is so cool! But they don’t have my size!

It looks wonderful on the statuesque model......
jumpsuits are trickier for us shorties and are a ball ache to go to the loo

Feelingtoasty · 16/01/2026 22:45

How about something like this? www.reiss.com/style/su924676/g49907

LucyLoo1972 · 17/01/2026 03:25

Look at Pink City Prints and Kemi Telford

Ophir · 17/01/2026 03:35

Feelingtoasty · 16/01/2026 22:45

How about something like this? www.reiss.com/style/su924676/g49907

This dress is gorgeous, and would be perfect

LadyLapsang · 17/01/2026 09:42

Hi, What dress size are you, your approx age and will you be wearing heels? I love the Me & Em jumpsuit posted above, but having lots of Me & Em clothes, they often suit taller women best. Liberty, LK Bennett and Hobbs are all reliable, although Hobbs can be a bit staid. If you are within travelling distance of West London today, Session has a clearance sale at Chiswick Town Hall until 5pm, be prepared to strip off in a communal area.

LadyLapsang · 17/01/2026 09:46

Brands at the Chiswick clearance sale include LK Bennett, Jigsaw and Coast and lots more.

Gwenhwyfar · 17/01/2026 11:01

Elsbetka · 16/01/2026 14:24

When you say formal do you mean posh? Might sound nitpicky but they're not always completely equivalent!

Also, are you after something you can wear again? What do you normally wear to weddings? (Sorry, this is getting towards an obnoxious number of questions 😁)

I'm also curious because church and manor house is quite normal for a wedding and not particularly formal. Is it one of those weddings that require hats?

cramptramp · 17/01/2026 16:26

CopeNorth · 16/01/2026 22:16

https://www.wolfandbadger.com/uk/miss-rhodeo-jumpsuit/

also Wolf & Badger can have some cool stuff. It’s lots of different designers…

Are you having a laugh? 😆 Imagine trying to eat with those fringed sleeves dangling in your soup.

Leyak · 17/01/2026 18:23

CopeNorth · 16/01/2026 22:16

https://www.wolfandbadger.com/uk/miss-rhodeo-jumpsuit/

also Wolf & Badger can have some cool stuff. It’s lots of different designers…

David Bowie approves 👍

NothingLeftToInheritDarlings · 17/01/2026 19:03

Have a look at Katya Wildman Bombshell - bit over the original budget, but I have three now and I wear them so often - just change the shoes/bag/shawl combos around and it's a different outfit every time. You can get second hand off ebay or vinted from time to time x
Katya Wildman

New Season - 'Grace' Red Stretch Satin Dress

Feel confident, elegant, and effortlessly feminine in the Grace dress, an iconic Katya Wildman design inspired by Grace Kelly and crafted in London using traditional tailoring techniques. Made from premium stretch satin, this bestselling shirt dress is...

https://katyawildman.com/products/grace-plum-stretch-satin-dress-copy

TheGirlattheBack · 17/01/2026 20:27

A lot of the options so far are from brands that are better suited to taller people. The best wedding guest dresses I’ve had (also short) were from the petite ranges of Whistles, Reiss or Karen Millen.

https://www.whistles.com/product/satin-twist-waist-midi-dress-40540.html

Ro and Zo do a nice petite range too

https://roandzo.com/collections/petite-dresses/products/petite-belle-green-sheer-skirt-puff-sleeve-dress

i might wait a month or so and keep looking after the sales have finished and the new season begins.

Blue Petite Satin Twist Waist Midi Dress | WHISTLES | Whistles UK |

Buy Blue Petite Satin Twist Waist Midi Dress | WHISTLES whistles.com.

https://www.whistles.com/product/satin-twist-waist-midi-dress-40540.html

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