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Can anyone help me find shoes for this dress?

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Highnone · 26/11/2025 21:40

I’ve just bought this Whistles dress from Vinted. It’s a lace tired dress in black and comes up about 4 inches above my knee. I actually used to own this dress years ago and loved it, so I’ve managed to track it down I a larger size.
I’m struggling to find shoes to go with it, needed for this weekend at a party. I can do mid to high ish heels
I can only find platform style shoes, which are too heavy for this style

I don’t want sling backs or anything too strappy, as I want to wear tights

thank you!

Can anyone help me find shoes for this dress?
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darkmoor · 26/11/2025 21:58

I still have and have recently worn this dress, love it!
Yes agree a bit delicate is better than platforms given the lace. Maybe sheer black tights (or nude although sheer black seems more in right now) and pointy heels. You could wear with a round toe if going for a vintage look.

Terrytheweasel · 26/11/2025 22:08

What bag and jewellery are you thinking?

Highnone · 26/11/2025 22:24

Yes I think a pointy heel is what is needed, struggling to find the perfect one.

I’ve not got as far as bags or jewellery!

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Possiblynotever · 27/11/2025 04:23

I have a similar dress and I wear it with black tights and black high boots ( but it is a little bit on the short side for me...)

Highnone · 27/11/2025 09:31

Thanks all. I struggle with anything cutting across the ankle, it really cuts my legs in two - so looking for something with no straps.

I do have some boots, but was hoping for shoes, albeit not ones that look more like work wear!

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Highnone · 27/11/2025 09:34

These are beautiful www.bobbies.com/en/4000784558-sole-black.html

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EleanorMc67 · 27/11/2025 13:03

Highnone · 27/11/2025 09:34

They are - but they're slingback, which you said you didn't want? 99% of heeled shoes right now are slingbacks!! If you wore fishnets or lacy tights with no "heel" they'd be fine though?

Have a look here? I'd assumed you were after black, but what about a metallic or a colour?

www.anoncph.co.uk/collections/evening-shoes

scorier · 27/11/2025 14:30

This lovely dress is just crying out for a Mary-Jane imo.

The LKB ones above are really nice, or a more budget friendly T Bar style www.next.co.uk/style/su732553/w47258

scorier · 27/11/2025 14:32

...or these www.next.co.uk/style/su853081/h99969

Ohpleeeease · 27/11/2025 14:44

I’ve had some nice evening shoes from New Look in the past. Not somewhere I usually shop but I bought a really nice pair of pointy shoes with an asymmetric strap a couple of years ago.

VenusClapTrap · 27/11/2025 20:13

Very glam very high with very big bows!

https://www.wolfandbadger.com/uk/samantha-black-suede-and-oversized-black-satin-bow-open-sided-stiletto/

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