They need to stay up, have a nice wide band, not pinch my generous (but muscled) thighs, and not cost the bloody earth. If available online, even better. If available in lace or fishnet, extra bonus points!
Any tried and trusted brands? M and S large are too big and medium too small, H and M are ok, tried some from Amazon which just don’t have any stick on the thigh band and am beginning to despair!