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Large handbag - alternative??

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myheartburnstheretoo7 · 18/10/2025 11:14

I know the word ‘frumpy’ is frowned upon here but that’s how I feel nowadays when I use a large leather crossbody handbag. But what’s the alternative? Something that can hold quite a bit, but stylish, suitable for travelling about for a day, hands free…

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Tuuuuune · 24/10/2025 06:34

I’m on a bag mission at the moment. I like a bigger bag but not a cross body as my boobs are big. I don’t really understand whether a cross body bag is supposed to go so I am looking at shoulder bags.

I’ve ordered and returned a Le pilage. I liked the lightweightness and the shape but not the white inside.

I have since ordered a radley eden row but it’s not here yet.
https://www.radley.co.uk/products/eden-row-large-open-top-tote-black

I’m very much considering one of these Rowdy bags.
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Floisme · 24/10/2025 07:05

Reading with interest but still using a cross body bag and can’t see a good alternative. Shoulder bags and totes wrecked my back and shoulders so I won’t be going near them again, bum bags are too small, and I’ve not used a back pack since I caught someone trying to open it. I’m quite taken with some of the vintage frame handbags but I like to have both hands free.

BlueEyedBogWitch · 24/10/2025 07:14

Well, if crossbody bags are frumpy I’m destined for Frumpsville, as I can’t keep a shoulder bag on for love nor money.

springintoaction2 · 24/10/2025 07:29

BlueEyedBogWitch · 24/10/2025 07:14

Well, if crossbody bags are frumpy I’m destined for Frumpsville, as I can’t keep a shoulder bag on for love nor money.

😂😂

I live in Frumpsville - it's my happy place where I don't give a shit!! Grin

Still - I love a good bag thread, and have looked at everything with interest. Especially like the Kipling ones - although feel I might need a bigger one.

doctorsleep · 24/10/2025 07:51

I love my messenger bag. Make sure for pick one for men. They look so much nicer than the version for women.

Theremedy · 24/10/2025 07:54

Does it have to be a crossbody bag? The Longchamp Pilage in large will hold everything, you can buy cheap inserts on Amazon to make the inside more traditionally handbaggy. Mine will last me forever, is waterproof and doubles up as a weekend bag when needed.

myheartburnstheretoo7 · 06/11/2025 21:12

Update - I bought a leather backpack. Absolutely love it!

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poshcrisps · 07/11/2025 11:04

myheartburnstheretoo7 · 06/11/2025 21:12

Update - I bought a leather backpack. Absolutely love it!

which one? I'm always looking for stylish leather backpacks.

myheartburnstheretoo7 · 07/11/2025 18:07

It’s from Fossil - the Parker mini in brown. I’m in love! It fits so much despite being compact. And I love the way it looks - it’s a backpack, but it’s chic! You can also change the strap and use it as a shoulder bag.

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myheartburnstheretoo7 · 07/11/2025 18:08

Voila

Large handbag - alternative??
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poshcrisps · 07/11/2025 23:05

Very nice - unusual and versatile.

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